whee! new look!
decided to change it cos everyone has been teasing me about the rainbows (GAY PRIDE FTW!! hoho), especially dan, who insists that i have lesbian tendencies. WHY he would think that i have no idea (actually i do, but =x); maybe it’s just his way of subtly hinting that he’s really female, i don’t know.
speaking of dan, i remember there was once i was pissed at him about something, some really teeny weeny matter, and we were arguing discussing about the matter when the absurdity of it all hit me and i burst out laughing mid-discussion because it was just TOO funny.
obviously dan wasn’t amused–he thought i was mind-fucking him, you know, like pretending to be upset and then cause a big fuss just to get him flustered and stuff, but i swear i wasn’t. i was really upset, and i truly found it funny when we were talking about it. well, at least i don’t ignore him for days and refuse to tell him the reason.
tsk. guys are so contradictory. ignore them and they whine about us being unreasonable; trash it out and laugh it off and they say we are mind-fucking them. and they say girls are hard to please. pffftt.
i guess the moment i got it out of my system i was no longer bothered by it, and so found it hilarious. teehee. i ish amuses myshelf shumtimes.
the weather is starting to warm up, i think–you can never really tell with the PMS-y weather these days. i still remember exactly 1 year ago, when yy and qy came for a visit, we could walk around in the day in short-sleeved tees without a jacket. this year, i am still having to wear long-sleeved tees in the day, albeit without a jacket.
BGR has been a very hot topic around the office lately, thanks to junghwan’s budding romance.
so the topic at lunch yesterday was about the length of a relationship. min-joo, who is currently in a more-than-2-years-and-counting relationship, expressed envy over junghwan’s young love, while boram, who is in a relationship that’s a few weeks old, said that, for once, she would like for her relationship to pass the 100-day mark.
i don’t know why people think that it is enviable to be in a long-term relationship. sure, you may have been together for 5, 10 years, but if that relationship is wrought with problems then what is the point right. (yes, there is no question mark at the end of the previous sentence because it wasn’t meant to be a question.)
it’d be silly to stay in a relationship just “so i can tell people that we have been together for x years” when the relationship is no longer working.
being in a long distance relationship is not easy, but i’d rather have my partner physically far apart than have him beside me but yet feel like he is somewhere on the other side of the universe.
it’s so much easier to deal with physical distance than emotional distance.
