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  1. wwoofer

    May 9, 2012 by admin

    i had dinner with my host’s friends–a bunch of hearty, interesting and cool aunties (ajummas) and uncles (ajusshis)–last night and my host, who has done a bit of wwoofing himself during his younger days, was explaining to them what it means to be a wwoofer.

    these people who wwoof, they are not really interested in the usual things that society pursues, like money, or career… they are more interested in living a life than making a living, and learning about what it means to be human (인간답게 살고 싶다). they want to learn about the local life and culture. i mean just look at our country alone, korea has so many regions and provinces, each with their own sub-culture. what wwoofers get out of wwoofing is not something you can simply get from a package tour, or by walking the streets of sinchon or insadong. should the wwoofer one day decide to pursue a career, they would make great ambassadors or great at handling global relations, because they have interacted with people from many backgrounds and cultures.

    i couldn’t have said it better myself, and these are the exact reasons why i love wwoofing.

    my first day yesterday was interesting to say the least.

    i was picked up at the bus terminal by two talkative ajummas and brought to a roomful of ajummas, ajusshis, grandmas and grandpas who were singing karaoke and dancing while in the middle of their lunch. one of the ajummas kept smiling and staring at me and said that she would like me to be her daughter-in-law.

    in between lunch and dinner, i helped to bring the horses from the fields back into the stables. it was a bit scary at first to be handling such a huge animal, but the horses they asked me to lead were very gentle and just so lovely. love love :D

    during dinner my host’s friend also commented on wanting me to be his daughter-in-law, and he took it one step further by inviting all of us to his house (which is just beside the restaurant) after dinner, so that he could introduce me to his son.

    it was a failed attempt, because after saying hi, his son escaped and ran out of the house. lolol. that’s quite funny. apparently i am only liked by korean aunties and uncles, but not so much by their sons. heehee.

    one of the uncles said to me, “you are like a daughter to all of us.”

    the main reason i can’t get enough of korea is because of 정 (jeong), or 情. i haven’t encountered another culture that is so quick to treat a stranger like their own, and not just pay lip service. i see this more with the older generation (which is why i love hanging out with the ajummas and ajusshis), though the younger generation, like my korean friends, have a lot of jeong as well.

    this is great. i need to wwoof in korea more, maybe even make it a yearly thing. heehee.

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  2. back in korea.

    May 2, 2012 by admin

    it’s been a few days since i’ve been back.

    this mixed sense of familiarity and strangeness hits me every time i return. it’s like nothing has changed, yet everything has.

    the roads are the same, the buildings are the same, but a lot of the shops are different. moved out, moved in, or closed down. the old makes way for the new, nothing stays the same; you feel this the most when you come back to a place after being away for a while.

    it took awhile to re-orientate and reacquaint myself with the streets of seoul – i had to ruffle through my memory to figure out how to get where i want to go, and the haze clears up as i walk the streets and start to remember bit by bit.

    i love this feeling.

    it’s like meeting an old friend after not seeing each other for a while, and getting to know each other once again. how have you been, what have you been up to? catching up.

    after i left, i had mostly forgotten everything about korea that annoys me, and remembered only the parts that i love. funnily enough, as i spend more time in seoul, i start to remember the annoying bits as well, but they no longer annoy me but have become endearing in a way. time and distance apart tend to do that. you treasure every moment spent together because you know that your time together will not and does not last, and you are determined that this precious time shall not be wasted on things that don’t matter.

    “this is how they do things over here.”

    i met up with hannah and jihye last night, and they were trying to convince me to find a job and stay in korea again. both of them actually started calling and messaging their contacts to see if there was any opening for a singaporean. hur. quite amused.

    who knows, i may end up living here again; then again, anywhere is fine (except china) if and when the right opportunity comes up.

    i have 4 weeks left here.

    gwangjang market – one of my favourite places in seoul :D


  3. D-16 and D-36

    April 11, 2012 by admin

    Change of plans… again.

    i guess I won’t be wwoofing at the community school this year after all.

    i was looking through the host list and saw a newly added host, and i clicked on it. here’s what it said:

    *All-year around: Feeding to horse feedstuff, riding a horse, reparing a ranch institution thing.. Because it is a studhorse ranch, I never use a pesticide, I try to use the manure for the trees, plants and the nature, try to raise a medicinal herb and the landscape agriculture including the lavender.

    (…)

    The Dumiwool ranch is located to the altitude above the sea in Gangwon-do. Though ears came to rebuke it if I go up it along low peaks piled up on fog, this place realizes the called 700 highlands. When you enter intto the ranch having a wide pasture and locating at basin surrounded low mountains, you can see the stable made from a log. Besides, at the entrance, the gorgeous name card that the host, Mr. Chil Kyou, Son carved of himself has hanged. I let I produce foals at a studhorse ranch and train him and sell it to a racetrack and a riding ground and I run a laying riding ground and an auto camp site and produce food by abandonment hometown agriculture.

    now, how can i resist this?? the moment i saw this listing i KNEW this is where i want to go, and what i want to do. i’d wanted to do something like this when i wwoofed in nz, but somehow never got round to doing it.

    it’s funny how our dreams come true in a roundabout way, and often at the most unexpected place and time. it doesn’t matter that this dream is 3 years late; in fact i have renewed faith that dreams DO come true.

    perfect time, perfect place.

    just gotta be patient. the universe will surprise you. :D

    so maybe the community school will have to wait till next year or something. ;)

    nothing’s been confirmed yet though, but i’ve just dropped the hosts an email and am waiting to hear back from them. hopefully they can take me in!

    time to go get my hands dirty – in some horse manure. heee.