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  1. leading the way

    March 21, 2012 by admin

    had a good 2-hour talk with my very first student from the tuition centre today. he’d just returned from a 2-week holiday in korea and apparently had been thinking about his future during those 2 weeks.

    so basically during those 2 hours, he spoke completely in korean while i answered in a mixture of korean and english. towards the end of our conversation, he told me that he had wanted to seek the opinion of his other teacher as well (he had another tuition class before mine) but the teacher was singaporean and didn’t speak any korean, and he felt that he couldn’t express himself articulately enough in english to have a proper discussion.

    it’s times like this that i am really glad that i know a third language. i know how helpless it can sometimes feel when you are looking for advice or direction and there’s no one you can turn to because you don’t speak the language well enough. somehow, i always feel that my ‘mission’ in sg is to help as many koreans as possible. kind of like it’s payback time, for all the help i was rendered during my 2 years in korea.

    looking back i still don’t know why i fell in love with korean (then again, love has no reason, does it?) but if it means that i get to help others in my own little way, i guess that’s good enough for me.

    besides, knowing korean has opened up many doors, and led me to meet many wonderful people.

    i love teaching korean kids. the younger ones may be a mischievous bunch, but they’re really good kids at heart, and the older ones seem to appreciate the fact that i know korean, so we form a bond pretty quickly.

    i hope my student will get into the US university of his choice. i’m sure life will work out for the best anyway, it always does.


  2. office politics

    March 4, 2012 by admin

    is there no way to avoid office politics at all?

    i’d thought that by getting away from the corporate world and moving into freelancing, i can avoid all the office politics that comes with the corporate world.

    unfortunately not, it seems.

    all i want to do is do my work and get paid, and live a peaceful life.

    i really don’t like conflict…


  3. have you ever gotten drunk?

    January 15, 2012 by admin

    met up with someone yesterday, who had a favour to ask of me, and got very turned off by the things she said and her attitude.

    as a materialistic person, she chases branded goods and the high life. in her younger days, i guess you could say she was a party animal.

    so we were talking, and she asked me, “have you ever been drunk?”

    i shook my head.

    “when was the last time you did something crazy?”

    “when i left singapore for 3 years?”

    “that’s not crazy. have you ever just gone to do something fun, let yourself go?”

    this made me mad.

    WHO THE HELL is she to judge my life? i have NO DESIRE to go party and get drunk, that’s stupid, childish and does no good to my body nor add anything to my life. just because YOU think you are cool because of your party-girl background, doesn’t mean that the whole world wants your lifestyle. that kind of lifestyle is not for me, and like i said, i think it’s a stupid lifestyle.

    i would much rather: jump off a bridge, jump off a plane, run off a cliff, go to a foreign country to stay when i don’t know the language, fly off to the grand canyon to work just a few days after my last paper.

    i didn’t even wish to argue with her–there’s no way you can argue with people who think their life is oh-so-perfect. who are you to judge my life based in your own values? i don’t share the same values as you, and i’m glad i don’t.

    sorry, but i won’t be helping you. i don’t respect you, and i don’t like the fact that you take advantage of my parents’ generosity. it’s not like we are close; you call me out of the blue to ask for a favour, and why should i help you? just because we are “family”?

    no, i don’t think you have ever treated me like family, not from the way you ‘fleece’ my parents. i am most willing to help people i care about, people whom i share true feelings with, even if they are not ‘family’. and i help them unconditionally.

    but i can’t bring myself to help someone like you.

    i know i shouldn’t think this way, but.